Posted by Deb on June 04, 2000 at 20:27:00 from 206.169.249.112:

this is from the other realms message board ~ the author is unknown

To Let Go

*To "Let go" does not mean to stop caring, it means I can't do it for someone else.

*To "Let go" is not to cut myself off, its the realization I can't control another.

*To "Let go" is not enable, but allow learning from natural consequences.

*To "Let go" is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.

*To "Let go" is not to try to change or blame another, its to make the most of myself.

*To "Let go" is not to care for, but to care about.

*To "Let go" is not to fix, but to be supportive.

*To "Let go" is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.

*To "Let go" is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to
affect their destinies.

*To "Let go" is not to be protective, its to permit another to face reality.

*To "Let go" is not to deny, but to accept.

*To "Let go" is not to nag, scold or argue, but instead to seach out my own shortcomings
and correct them.

*To "Let go" is not to adjust everything to my desires.

*To "Let go" is not to cirticize and regulate, anybody, but to try to becaome what I dream I
can be.

*To "Let go" is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.

*To "Let go" is to fear less, and love more.

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